iPad stuck in update mode, can’t even get in dfu mode

my home button was broken a while ago and I tried the other ways of getting in dfu mode nothing worked, I plugged into iTunes for windows and it still didn’t detect it, since i have to tap trust computer, which I can’t do cause I’m in update mode, it’s been stuck like this with the progress bar not even showing a pixel of black(the progress bar), at the time of writing, also when I plug it into iTunes it gives me error 0xe8000065 after a few minutes

EDIT: I have now gotten the iPad to the plug into iTunes black screen but on the middle of updating, it disconnects and says error 2003