Hi. Not sure if you still need an answer to this but I just sort of figured it out earlier. I had a Macbook Air 2017 prior to getting my Macbook Pro 2019 and on the former, the trackpad was so easy to use. Now, on my Pro 2019, simply clicking and right-clicking something has become such a burden. I played around with the trackpad settings on the System Preference and it turns out that you just have to turn off the Force Click function. Hope that works out and resolves it for you somehow.